{"id":1788,"date":"2015-04-24T01:25:29","date_gmt":"2015-04-24T08:25:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/?p=1788"},"modified":"2015-04-24T01:29:28","modified_gmt":"2015-04-24T08:29:28","slug":"not-the-typical-status-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/not-the-typical-status-update\/","title":{"rendered":"not the typical status update"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The other day I was sluggish getting out of bed. I took my phone out and starting scrolling down the Facebook feed; only\u00a0my thumb is moving at this point. Up comes a status update from my old neighbor. It&#8217;s been over a year since we&#8217;ve last spoken.<\/p>\n<p>There she is, just as I remember. \u00a0This time she looks cheerful in the hospital room, about to go through her first round of chemo.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Wait, what?<\/p>\n<p>~<\/p>\n<p>I\u00a0didn&#8217;t stay in bed for long.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;d\u00a0always gotten along, but we\u00a0lost contact after we moved away.\u00a0I sent her a message the same day, but it shouldn&#8217;t take cancer for one person to reach out to another.<\/p>\n<p>She&#8217;ll be okay. But just as she says in her own words, nobody expects to get cancer at 22. (I&#8217;m 20 now &#8212; when will it be my turn?) How unsettling, that it can happen to any one at any time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The other day I was sluggish getting out of bed. I took my phone out and starting scrolling down the Facebook feed; only\u00a0my thumb is moving at this point. Up comes a status update from my old neighbor. It&#8217;s been over a year since we&#8217;ve last spoken. There she is, just as I remember. \u00a0This &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/not-the-typical-status-update\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;not the typical status update&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1788","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3MSpn-sQ","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1788","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1788"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1788\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1792,"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1788\/revisions\/1792"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1788"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1788"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wesleyschan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1788"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}